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Love marriage v Arrange marriage?

Marriage but Love marriage or Arrange marriage?
Love
56%
 56%  [ 91 ]
Arrange
43%
 43%  [ 69 ]
Total Votes : 160

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laya
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Dee.J wrote:
koi acha sa rishta hua nazar men to batae ga,,,--Embarassed

mummay sy jaky kaho na muskil kia hy yea fir aas pass talsh kar ly kia kami hy

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Thu Apr 02, 2009 9:38 am View user's profile Send private message
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Doston-Ka-Dost wrote:
not equal dost

Love Marriage= ager khud kohay ma chalang lagao to Love Marriage

Arrange Marriage= ager 10 bande paker ker tum ko dhaka dain to Arrange Marriage

Very Happy Very Happy

fir na eddar raha na ouder ka ra na Laughing Laughing
wel luck or honest ki baat hy

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Doston-Ka-Dost
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laya wrote:
Doston-Ka-Dost wrote:
not equal dost

Love Marriage= ager khud kohay ma chalang lagao to Love Marriage

Arrange Marriage= ager 10 bande paker ker tum ko dhaka dain to Arrange Marriage

Very Happy Very Happy

fir na eddar raha na ouder ka ra na Laughing Laughing
wel luck or honest ki baat hy


maybe...... but mujay lagta hai k is ma sab sa ziada parents ki Sallah bohot zarori hai
wo app ne sona to ho ga

jis ne apne parents ki maani us ko mili har kaam ma Asani Smile
Thu Apr 02, 2009 11:53 am View user's profile Send private message
xyz_2
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Love marriage is good.

Arranged marriage is also good as long as the kids are not forced to accept their parents decision. The kids must have the final say in arranged marriages.
Thu Apr 02, 2009 1:52 pm View user's profile Send private message
laya
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Doston-Ka-Dost wrote:
laya wrote:
Doston-Ka-Dost wrote:
not equal dost

Love Marriage= ager khud kohay ma chalang lagao to Love Marriage

Arrange Marriage= ager 10 bande paker ker tum ko dhaka dain to Arrange Marriage

Very Happy Very Happy

fir na eddar raha na ouder ka ra na Laughing Laughing
wel luck or honest ki baat hy


maybe...... but mujay lagta hai k is ma sab sa ziada parents ki Sallah bohot zarori hai
wo app ne sona to ho ga

jis ne apne parents ki maani us ko mili har kaam ma Asani Smile

yeah kabi tu arrange kamiyab nahi jati kabi love so i am agree boths n jo bi kaam karo parent ko agree rakhy or parent ko bi oolad ki happy ka khayal kar na chahe a any wayz sab aapni jagha hy

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Mon Apr 06, 2009 9:12 am View user's profile Send private message
paksubha_456
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love marriage, times have changed...i dont have a problem with arrange marriage either, as long as both parties r cool with it
Sat Apr 11, 2009 8:40 am View user's profile Send private message
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Love Marriange Is Best Reply with quote
But it should be love marriage not inspirational marriage
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Love v Arrange Marriage Reply with quote
mera decision always arrange marriage hi k liye rahe ga q k 95% love krne walo ki marriage nai hoti aur agar meri bat mano to marriage k baad Love karo gae to zindagi bahout hi piyari aur khobsorat lage gi ye guarantee hai laikn shart ye hai k dono jivan sathi aik dosre ko achi tarah samjne ki koshish aur 1 2re ki respect karain. Ye azmai hoi bat hai.Ye kaisi khushi hoti hai mai lafzoo mai really nai likh sakta sirf ap sab frnds ko recommend krta ho k arrange marraige sab se best hai.
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Thu Apr 23, 2009 12:16 pm View user's profile Send private message
manzorro
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love or arrange Reply with quote
Both have their own advantages and disadvantages but in the simples
and easiest form arrange marriage is better.

Love can happen even after marriage not necessarily before it.
But because of our society and todays modern lifestyle we tend to
like and appreciate love marriage .Its also because we demand
liberalism.
Mon Apr 27, 2009 12:05 pm View user's profile Send private message
omarsajid
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arranged
Sat Jun 06, 2009 5:20 pm View user's profile Send private message
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MMM ITHINK ARRANGE COZ IV HEARD THAT ARRANGED MARRIGES R MORE SUCESSFULL

PATA NAI KYUN

PAR AGAR LOVE MARRIGE HAI TO PARENTS KI B MARZI HONI CHAYE

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**maha** wrote:
MMM ITHINK ARRANGE COZ IV HEARD THAT ARRANGED MARRIGES R MORE SUCESSFULL

PATA NAI KYUN

PAR AGAR LOVE MARRIGE HAI TO PARENTS KI B MARZI HONI CHAYE


u r rite Embarassed
Sun Sep 13, 2009 5:49 am View user's profile Send private message
naseemabbasi
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Love marriage, iff marriage is with the same person you love. Otherwise, arranged marriage.
Mon Sep 28, 2009 11:48 pm View user's profile Send private message
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no need for love before marraige !!

love before marraige will make the boy better player when the girl will loose her Purity , Serenity and her Innocence Smile
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Ahaan!

why against boyZ!

All fingures r not Equall LaJooooo Jii
Smile
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Aatish345 wrote:
Ahaan!

why against boyZ!

All fingures r not Equall LaJooooo Jii
Smile


iam not against anyone AatishOoOo jii

iam saying the truth lol ! Razz
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loje wrote:
Aatish345 wrote:
Ahaan!

why against boyZ!

All fingures r not Equall LaJooooo Jii
Smile


iam not against anyone AatishOoOo jii

iam saying the truth lol ! Razz


Nope i cant C...

i can just only C de 1 side.... Razz

Truth? 4 u or 4 everyOne? Razz
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loje
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Aatish345 wrote:
loje wrote:
Aatish345 wrote:
Ahaan!

why against boyZ!

All fingures r not Equall LaJooooo Jii
Smile


iam not against anyone AatishOoOo jii

iam saying the truth lol ! Razz


Nope i cant C...

i can just only C de 1 side.... Razz

Truth? 4 u or 4 everyOne? Razz


lol 4 me ? how hehehehe

no its for everyone

from what i hear from stories Aatish Razz

and yeah your thinking is the best example lol
Tue Sep 29, 2009 12:36 am View user's profile Send private message
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loje wrote:
Aatish345 wrote:
loje wrote:
Aatish345 wrote:
Ahaan!

why against boyZ!

All fingures r not Equall LaJooooo Jii
Smile


iam not against anyone AatishOoOo jii

iam saying the truth lol ! Razz


Nope i cant C...

i can just only C de 1 side.... Razz

Truth? 4 u or 4 everyOne? Razz


lol 4 me ? how hehehehe

no its for everyone

from what i hear from stories Aatish Razz

and yeah your thinking is the best example lol


4 u.. bcz now u de only one who saying dese words!
u hear from Stories..AHAN!!! Story made by YA.lolzzzz
meeh wana Say**All fingurez r not Equal**
N u r only watching de 1 side not all sides..

& last One............lolzzzzz..Its Human Nature..dats why u said naww...u were thinking dat kay Aatishh thought N den wrote dis point.. Razz Laughing Laughing Laughing
But Nope.. Meeh Dont think.just wrote it.. Smile

Aniwe.. we have tu watch all de sides.
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Aatish345 wrote:
loje wrote:
Aatish345 wrote:
loje wrote:
Aatish345 wrote:
Ahaan!

why against boyZ!

All fingures r not Equall LaJooooo Jii
Smile


iam not against anyone AatishOoOo jii

iam saying the truth lol ! Razz


Nope i cant C...

i can just only C de 1 side.... Razz

Truth? 4 u or 4 everyOne? Razz


lol 4 me ? how hehehehe

no its for everyone

from what i hear from stories Aatish Razz

and yeah your thinking is the best example lol


4 u.. bcz now u de only one who saying dese words!
u hear from Stories..AHAN!!! Story made by YA.lolzzzz
meeh wana Say**All fingurez r not Equal**
N u r only watching de 1 side not all sides..

& last One............lolzzzzz..Its Human Nature..dats why u said naww...u were thinking dat kay Aatishh thought N den wrote dis point.. Razz Laughing Laughing Laughing
But Nope.. Meeh Dont think.just wrote it.. Smile

Aniwe.. we have tu watch all de sides.


first of all : behave yourself Aatish !

i dont make stories .. this is one

second i told you i hear , read these stories everywhere its not a new thing that you are surprizzed to hear it from me !!!!!

yes not all fingures r equal but why girls should go throw these relationships which is not sure if she will gonna marry him or not !!!

girls should be aware of these things now !!
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I didn't C anything in my Post where i have tu behave meeh self..

&

Dats All...

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Abboo Jee aein ge to un sey poochh ke bataoon ga.
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Rose
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Smile G.day everyone...nice thread i shd. say...well methinks love or arranged; marriages are made in heaven Laughing Anyways starting off with a stranger either ways... Laughing so like we shd. try to make it work out with whole lot of positive emotions from either side..hope im right...well, im not entirely sure of anything so you know.... Laughing
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Shahzad_Anwar
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Marriage if any should definitely be Arranged Reply with quote
Those who say Love marriages is better are out of their mind and senses....

Arranged Marriage is much better than Love marriage cause:

1. It dont involve much emotional tension as compared to love marriage

2. It is more costly to maintain love relationship as it involves lot of money to take the mate out, to visit her, to talk by phone every single day..... (my unlucky friends are a live proof of that who are stuck with it)

3. There is 90% chance of pre-marital sexual acts!

4. Even to maintain love marriage it is a humongous emotionally draining task....

5. 60% chance that love marriages end in divorce...

So Love marriage suxxx....
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both arranged and love marriages are good and workable, it depends on different circumstances and different people so the results are also different. we must avoid FORCED MARRIAGES, we should never mix arranged marriage and forced marriage, they are completely 2 different concepts. forced marriages will ruine a man and a woman's life, it will bring alot of damages to the 2 households. any marriage, be it arranged or love must have the ultimate and final say of the man and woman, if not no marriage should take place.
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