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Raneem
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How smart people handle difficult people and situations.
We all meet various kind of personalities in our life, but then there are difficult people that are all around us and we have to deal with them. We find them in our offices, in market places and even in our own family. There negativity creates a stress that can lead to more problems if not dealt properly. Here, smart people come into play. They know how to deal with them effectively without causing any hindrance in their workflow, advancements and goals.
How do they do this? They acquire certain qualities that work best for them. I would be detailing you on four of them.

Emotional Awareness
They are in tune with their emotions and they do not let anyone manipulate them. People will push your buttons and you need to be aware of when they are doing it and prevent it from letting it get to you and disturb you emotionally. So they maintain an emotional distance with these toxic people that lack consciousness. And derive a special joy by emotionally leeching on others.

Focus on Solutions
They don’t focus on the chaos that is being ensued by these difficult people that could be completely unaware of the negativity they brew around others like a fence. When you focus on the solutions on how you can better yourself, how you can prevent this problem later, when you start focusing on these solutions it creates a win situation for you. Instead of prolonging your own stress, you end up improving yourself more, learning new tactics and in turn ignoring them.

Say No to Negative Self-Talk
Emotionally smart people avoid this one habit that can ruin you for good if continued for a good long period of time, and you will start believing your own degrading self-talk. They avoid such idiocy, which is exactly what they would want you to indulge in. So say no to such dangerous habit. And do not let them win, if anything do the opposite and tell yourself how amazing you are.

Reach out to your Support System
When having to deal with these toxic people reach out to your close friends, spouses, co-workers and even siblings that are your support system. Keep an eye at your work place and you might find someone rooting for you and taking your side, keep them close and support them in return. You can always get their perspective on your problem and have a let out which every human need.

Hope these few qualities of smart people helped you in some way.
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